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Do Your Research, Sis.

Dating Intelligence for Women

Do Your
Research,
Sis.

The only brand teaching women to investigate, verify, and protect themselves in modern dating — using real tools, real techniques, and real stories from Detective K.

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$1.3B+ Lost to romance scams in 2024

360M+ Women on dating apps globally

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Detective K — Founder, The Dating Detective

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The Origin

A receipt. A rewards number. One phone call.

A few years ago, I found a Sephora receipt at my boyfriend's house. Foundation, lashes, lip gloss. He said he didn't know what it was. I almost threw it away.

Then I noticed a rewards number. I called Sephora. Told them a friend left her purchase in my car — could they look up the number so I could return it?

"They gave me a name. A name I knew very well. The mother of his child."

One receipt. One phone call. One name. That was social engineering. That was reverse lookup. That was the moment I became The Dating Detective.

This brand exists because the truth is always in the details — and every woman deserves to know how to find it.

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Founder

Detective K

The Dating Detective

"The truth is always in the details. You just have to know where to look."

— Detective K, Founder

Our Mission

Your Big Sister in the Investigation Business

The Dating Detective is the only digital media brand that combines investigative education, digital verification tools, and real-world dating intelligence — built specifically for women navigating modern dating.

We don't just tell you what red flags look like. We show you exactly how to find them — using the same tools and techniques used by investigators, journalists, and OSINT professionals. Made simple. Made powerful. Made for you.

From the Sephora receipt that started it all to teaching women how to run public records checks in under five minutes — everything here is built from real experience, real cases, and a real commitment to your safety.

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6 Investigation Tutorials

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$0 Cost to Start Learning

Products & Services

Your Investigation Toolkit

Start with what you need right now. Every product works standalone — or stack them all with the bundle.

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01 — Checklist

The Red Flag Checklist

17 patterns across 7 categories. Interactive, tap-to-check, live score with real-time verdict. Run this before you catch feelings.

17 red flags Live score Works on phone Printable

$17 one-time

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02 — Workbook

The Dating Dossier

Your personal case file workbook. Log what he says, log what you find, let the evidence speak. 7 sections with a final verdict.

7 sections Verification log Flag tracker Case verdict

$27 one-time

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Watch & Learn

Six fully produced investigation tutorials on YouTube — real techniques, no fluff, no vague advice.

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Top 7 Red Flags

The seven behavioral patterns that show up in almost every situation — before you're emotionally invested.

Red Flag Education · 90 sec

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How Sephora Helped Me Catch a Cheater

The receipt, the rewards number, the phone call. How one detail revealed everything.

Real Talk · 90 sec

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How to Use Public Data Checks

Step-by-step walkthrough of free public records tools anyone can use to verify who they're really talking to.

Investigative Tutorial · 90 sec

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Love Bombing — What It Is & How to Spot It

Why it feels so good, and why that feeling is exactly the warning sign.

Red Flag Education · 90 sec

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Going Through the Medicine Cabinet

What to look for, what it tells you, and how to trust what you find when you're in his space.

Investigative Tutorial · 90 sec

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Dating Apps — How to Use & Navigate Them

Read profiles like an investigator, spot fake accounts, and use the platform as a verification tool.

Tech Tools · 90 sec

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The Intel

Red Flags, Decoded

Real investigative knowledge. No fluff. No vague advice. Just tools and truth.

Investigation Basics

5 Things You Can Find Out About Someone Before the First Date — For Free

You don't need expensive tools or special training. Here are five things any woman can verify in under 20 minutes using freely available public information — and why you should.

By Detective K10 min read

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Get Private Investigation Guidance

Not sure what you're dealing with? Bring your situation to Detective K for a private, confidential session. Walk away with a clear picture and a personal action plan.

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100% Confidential

Everything discussed stays between us. No judgment, no pressure, no receipts.

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Situation-Specific

Every session is personalized to your exact situation — not a generic checklist.

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Real Tools, Real Results

You'll leave knowing exactly what to investigate and exactly how to do it.

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